Typical Characteristics of Teenagers


Compiled by Bob Stahn

Emotionally
Near sighted 
Invincible, risk taker 
Self conscious 
Doesn’t know self 
Defensive often 
Curious 
Moody, chaotic internally 
Awkward 
In transition from child to adult 
Confused/confusing 
New and wonderful experiences 
Sensitive about self 
Insensitive about others 
Volatile 
Know-it-all 
Disconnected with others 
Experimenting 
Enmeshed with peers 
Unstable 
Dependent 
Independent (second toddlerhood) 
Narrow minded 
Does not know self 
Inadequate 

Insecure


Physically
Awkward  
Experimenting           
Energetic   
Hormone driven 
Out of control  
Mobile/free  
Rarely like own appearance 
In transition from child to adult 
Gawky (as is anything in its adolescence) 
Often hungry or eating 
Growing (out of clothes) 

Maybe adult body (but not maturity) 


Socially
Peer oriented/pressure 
Be seen/recognized (“on stage”) 
Self conscious  
Mobility 
In transition   
Freedom 
Unskilled/Awkward 
Experimental 
Manipulative  
Insensitive about others 
Without a niche  
Sensitive about self 
Liberated from “kid” status 
Clothes/status 
“Pairing up” interests 
Manipulative 
Acceptance-focused behavior 
Alone/misfit 
Individual identity          
Want distance from parents 
  
Intellectually
Black and white thinking 
Abstract thinking 
Idealistic thinking 
Here-and-now thinking only (no future) 
Pseudo-stupidity (due to little experience) 
Experimentation with boundaries 
Experimentation with values 
Question “Who am I?” 
Question “Am I normal?”